But, as I have said, I cannot see that this matter is of importance.

The patch has to be hoed, the pie to be cooked; the one cannot do the both.

Settle it between you, and, having settled it, agree to do each your own work free from this everlasting nagging.
I know, personally, three ladies who have exchanged the woman's work for the man's.

One was deserted by her husband, and left with two young children.

She hired a capable woman to look after the house, and joined a ladies' orchestra as pianist at two pounds a week.