"It will be just the same, papa,--either here, or at Wharton, or elsewhere.

You need not be afraid of me." "I am not afraid of you;--but I am afraid for you.

I fear for your happiness,--and for my own." "So do I, papa.

But what can be done?
I suppose sometimes people must be unhappy.

I can't change myself, and I can't change you.