Sex is always individual.

A man has his own sex: nobody else's.

And sexually he goes as a single individual; he can mingle only singly.

So that to make sex a general affair is just a perversion and a lie.

You can't get people and talk to them about their sex, as if it were a common interest.
We have got to get back to the great purpose of manhood, a passionate unison in actively making a world.