From the very first day, throw a child back on its own resources--even a little cruelly sometimes.

But don't neglect it, don't have a negative attitude to it.

Play with it, tease it and roll it over as a dog her puppy, mock it when it is too timorous, laugh at it, scold it when it really bothers you--for a child must learn not to bother another person--and when it makes you genuinely angry, spank it soundly.

But always remember that it is a single little soul by itself; and that the responsibility for the wise, warm relationship is yours, the adult's.
Then always watch its deportment.

Above all things encourage a straight backbone and proud shoulders.