Each time, after the fourfold interchange between two dynamic polarized lives, there results a development in the individuality and a sublimation into consciousness, both simultaneously in each party: _and this dual development causes at once a diminution in the dynamic polarity between the two parties_.
That is, as its individuality and its mental concept of the mother develop in the child, there is a corresponding _waning_ of the dynamic relation between the child and the mother.

And this is the natural progression of all love.

As we have said before, the accomplishment of individuality never finally exhausts the dynamic flow between parents and child.

In the same way, a child can never have a finite conception of either of its parents.

It can have a very much more finite, finished conception of its aunts or its friends.