Then let it bristle.

And if mine bristle back again, then let us, if we must, fly at one another like two enraged men.

It is how it should be.

We've got to learn to live from the center of our own responsibility only, and let other people do the same.
To return to the child, however, and his development on his two planes of consciousness.

There is all the time a direct dynamic connection between child and mother, child and father also, from the start.