A norm is merely an abstraction, not a reality.
The same on the psychical plane.

We either love too much, or impose our will too much, are too spiritual or too sensual.

There is not and cannot be any actual norm of human conduct.

All depends, first, on the unknown inward need within the very nuclear centers of the individual himself, and secondly on his circumstance.

Some men _must_ be too spiritual, some _must_ be too sensual.