It is a great subtle interplay, and from this interplay the child is built up, body and psyche.

Impelled from the primal conscious center in the abdomen, the child seeks the mother, seeks the breast, opens a blind mouth and gropes for the nipple.

Not mentally directed and yet certainly directed.

Directed from the dark pre-mind center of the solar plexus.
From this center the child seeks, the mother knows.

Hence the true mindlessness of the pristine, healthy mother.