All the others are there, all the time.

And only at his maximum does an individual surpass all his derivative elements, and become purely himself.

And most people never get there.

In his own pure individuality a man surpasses his father and mother, and is utterly unknown to them.

"Woman, what have I to do with thee ?" But this does not alter the fact that within him lives the mother-quick and the father-quick, and that though in his wholeness he is rapt away beyond the old mother-father connections, they are still there within him, consummated but not consumed.