And break it if you can.

Very often not even death can break it.
And as we see, the establishment of the upper love-and-cognition circuit inevitably provokes the lower sex-sensual centers into action, even though there be no correspondence on the sensual plane between the two individuals concerned.

Then see what happens.

If you want to see the real desirable wife-spirit, look at a mother with her boy of eighteen.

How she serves him, how she stimulates him, how her true female self is his, is wife-submissive to him as never, never it could be to a husband.