Introduce any trick, any idea, any mental element you can into sex, but make it an affair of the upper consciousness, the mind and eyes and mouth and fingers.

This is our vice, our dirt, our disease.
And the adult, and the ideal are to blame.

But the tragedy of our children, in their inflamed, solitary sexual excitement, distresses us beyond any blame.
It is time to drop the word love, and more than time to drop the ideal of love.

Every frenzied individual is told to find fulfillment in love.

So he tries.