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The Family and it’s Members

CHAPTER I
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If it is bad for the family for a large number of women unable to find suitable permanent mates to be so eager for motherhood that they claim social permission for that public service whatever their marital position, it may be still worse for the family for a large number of highly superior women to cease to care greatly for intimate comradeship with men or for the actual experience of motherhood.

Many women working and living in solitary fashion until too old to risk the chances of marriage, and able to find highest comradeship and largest comfort in other women's companionship, have been so held by family burdens in youth that this result has been inevitable.

Society has, therefore, a task to prevent the weight of past generations, falling now so heavily upon some young men and upon far more young women, from operating against the well-being of the generations to come.

We should make it our social business to share more justly the burdens due to old age and chronic invalidism.
=Women Can Not be Forced Back to Compulsory Marriage.=--It is too late in the day to pass laws forbidding women from gaining economic freedom and social power in professional careers so that all the best of them shall again be obliged to marry as a "means of support." Few persons would do this if they could.

But we can and should make haste to bring together, as the State Universities of our country do so helpfully, those who should be the fathers and mothers of the future, in that period of life when love will take chances for the future.
"Propinquity," the old adage declares, is the "best incentive to courtship," and it should be made to work more effectively.
In our own country, eugenists may be comforted to learn, it is still fashionable to marry, even in the best families.


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