These commands are coupled with instructions as to the danger of revealing her real character, and the additional advice of not seeming alarmingly well educated.

If the settlements have all been agreed upon, the parents are good-natured enough to let the pair see each other for a few moments; they are allowed to talk or walk together, but always without the slightest freedom, and knowing that they are bound by rigid rules.

The man is as much dressed up in soul as he is in body, and so is the young girl.

This pitiable comedy, mixed with bouquets, jewels, and theatre-parties is called "paying your addresses." It revolts me: I desire that actual marriage shall be the result of a previous and long marriage of souls.

A young girl, a woman, has throughout her life only this one moment when reflection, second sight, and experience are necessary to her.