[Herland by Charlotte Perkins Stetson Gilman]@TWC D-Link bookHerland CHAPTER 8 23/24
They had no exact analogue for our word HOME, any more than they had for our Roman-based FAMILY. They loved one another with a practically universal affection, rising to exquisite and unbroken friendships, and broadening to a devotion to their country and people for which our word PATRIOTISM is no definition at all. Patriotism, red hot, is compatible with the existence of a neglect of national interests, a dishonesty, a cold indifference to the suffering of millions.
Patriotism is largely pride, and very largely combativeness.
Patriotism generally has a chip on its shoulder. This country had no other country to measure itself by--save the few poor savages far below, with whom they had no contact. They loved their country because it was their nursery, playground, and workshop--theirs and their children's.
They were proud of it as a workshop, proud of their record of ever-increasing efficiency; they had made a pleasant garden of it, a very practical little heaven; but most of all they valued it--and here it is hard for us to understand them--as a cultural environment for their children. That, of course, is the keynote of the whole distinction--their children. From those first breathlessly guarded, half-adored race mothers, all up the ascending line, they had this dominant thought of building up a great race through the children. All the surrendering devotion our women have put into their private families, these women put into their country and race.
All the loyalty and service men expect of wives, they gave, not singly to men, but collectively to one another. And the mother instinct, with us so painfully intense, so thwarted by conditions, so concentrated in personal devotion to a few, so bitterly hurt by death, disease, or barrenness, and even by the mere growth of the children, leaving the mother alone in her empty nest--all this feeling with them flowed out in a strong, wide current, unbroken through the generations, deepening and widening through the years, including every child in all the land. With their united power and wisdom, they had studied and overcome the "diseases of childhood"-- their children had none. They had faced the problems of education and so solved them that their children grew up as naturally as young trees; learning through every sense; taught continuously but unconsciously--never knowing they were being educated. In fact, they did not use the word as we do.
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