[The Secret of a Happy Home (1896) by Marion Harland]@TWC D-Link bookThe Secret of a Happy Home (1896) CHAPTER XVI 3/10
The mother who has brought up a daughter to woman's estate, and made her fit to be the wife of a good man and the mother of his children, should be appreciated by the man who profits by the wife's mother's teachings.
Had this mother been careless and negligent, allowing the daughter to cultivate traits that make her husband wretched, how quick would he be to lay the blame where it belongs,--upon the mother who trained, or left untrained the daughter.
Why should he not give credit to the same source? There are many women who, to their shame be it said, openly sneer at their mothers-in-law, and ridicule their manners, habits, etc.
Yet, in the same breath, the woman of this class will freely state that she has "the best husband in all creation." Whose influence made him the man he is, if not the mother's with whom, for so many years, he was the first and dearest care, until she uncomplainingly saw him leave her home with the girl he married? Husband and wife do not look into the matter deeply enough to think what underlies this dislike for the other's mother.
The man who truly loves his wife will do all in his power and make any self-sacrifice to further her happiness.
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