It wouldn't do.

I'm sure, in her heart, Connie cares for me.

I could make her understand me better if I had half the chance.

But a fellow can't get near her nowadays.

Don't you think you are carrying the family link too far?
Now, what I want to ask of you, as a friend, is this: will you put in a good word for me every chance you get?
I'll square myself with Katherine all right.