Why, Sarah actually loves me, though she don't make a noise like it.

The thing for you is to love your husband, and, by thunder, to make a noise of lovin' him, too.

And then you can kid him into doing 'most anything you want.

Let him have his way once in a while, and he'll let you have yourn.

But you just go on lovin' him, and leanin' on his judgement--he's no fool--and you'll be all hunky-dory.