You alone can fuse the elements.

Hold your place; do not try to shift into the place that another occupies.

Keep your eye on what you have to work with, not on what somebody else has.

The ultimate result, the originality, flavor, distinction, usefulness of your life, depend on the care, the reverence, and the intelligence with which you work up and out from where you are and with what you have." It is only the woman who is prepared to say something like that to her daughter, to help her to see it, and to rise to it that has brought into her home the spirit of to-day.
Where there is failure at any one of these points, and if one fails, all probably will, since they are obvious elements in the liberal view of life, the girl must go forth if her life is to go progressively on.
She must seek work, less for the sake of work than for the sake of life.

To remain where she is, unproductive in a group which does not recognize the calls of the present world and where _another person_--for the mother who tries to force the individuality becomes another person--insists on shaping her course,--to do this is to quench the spirit, stop the very breath of life.
The girl goes forth to seek work.