But you must know your own mind when you ask, and make the best of what I can do for you.

I will hear no general complaints whatever." Remembering this, I felt a little nervous when I was fairly in the drawing-room, and Lady Elizabeth had laid down her glasses to hear what I had to say.
"Do you want anything, my dear ?" said she.
I began to complain--that Joseph was so stupid; that it seemed so provoking; that I did think it was very unkind of him, etc.; but Lady Elizabeth put up her hand.
"My dear Selina, you have forgotten what I told you.

If there is anything that an old woman like me can do to make your father's child happy, do not be afraid to ask for it, but I will not have grumbling in the drawing-room.

By all means make up your mind as to what you want, and don't be afraid to ask your old godmother.

But if she thinks it right to refuse, or you do not think it right to ask, you must make the best of matters as they stand, and keep your good humour and your good manners like a lady." I felt puzzled.