In that case she believed the natural woman would behave herself naturally, and say the words and do the deeds called forth by the situation.

So Martha in this solemn session was seeking strength to give up, strength to bear and to forbear, strength to see her household laws and customs violated, and not go on the aggressive for their sanctity.
She had a custom that devout women in all ages have naturally followed.
She sat quiet before God and spoke to Him in low, whispered words.

It was not prayer; it was rather the still confidence of one who asks help and counsel from a Friend, able and willing to give it.
"Dear God," she said, in a voice that none but God could hear, "give me good, plain, household understanding--let me keep in mind that there is no foolishness like falling out--help me to hold my temper well in hand so that I may put things right as fast as they go wrong.

I am jealous about John--it _is_ hard to give him up.

Thou gavest him to me, Thou knowest.