It is Stella's idea entirely.

This man, when he is found, will sway enormous authority; he will become, if he has a wife able to assist him, an immense social power." "And you want me to become that man ?" "Yes, Arnold.

I do not see why you should not become that man.

Cease to think of becoming President of the Royal Academy, yet go on painting; prove your genius, so as to command respect; cultivate the art of public speaking; and look about for a wife who will be your right hand.

Think of this seriously.