It was regarded as too dangerous, and even as degrading.

The women who wanted pleasure were not considered fit for the home, but more suited to be devoted to an exclusive "life of pleasure," which soon turned out to be not their own pleasure but men's.

A "life of pleasure," in that sense or in any other sense, was not what more than a small minority of women ever desired.

The desire of women for courtship is not a thing by itself, and was not implanted for gratification by itself.

It is naturally intertwined--and to a much greater degree than the corresponding desire in men--with her deepest personal, family, and social instincts, so that if these are desecrated and lost its charm soon fades.
The practices and the ideals of this established morality were both due to men, and both were so thoroughly fashioned that they subjugated alike the actions and the feelings of women.