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Little Essays of Love and Virtue

CHAPTER I
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The parents themselves, though they may have forgotten it, often in youth similarly revolted against the cherished doctrines of their own parents; it has ever been so, the only difference being that to-day, probably, the opportunities for variation are greater.

So it comes about that what James Hinton said half a century ago is often true to-day: "Our happy Christian homes are the real dark places of the earth." It is evident that the problem of the relation of the child to the parent is still incompletely solved even in what we consider our highest civilisation.

There is here needed an art in which those who have to exercise it can scarcely possess all the necessary skill and experience.
Among trees and birds and beasts the art is surer because it is exercised unconsciously, on the foundation of a large tradition in which failure meant death.

In the common procreative profusion of those forms of life the frequent death of the young was a matter of little concern, but biologically there was never any sacrifice of the offspring to the well-being of the parents.

Whenever sacrifice is called for it is the parents who are sacrificed to their offspring.


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