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Little Essays of Love and Virtue

CHAPTER I
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For the majority, even though they are workers, the anciently subtle ties of the home are still, as they should be, an element of natural piety, and, also, as they should not be, clinging fetters which impede individuality and destroy personal initiative.
We all know so many happy homes beneath whose calm surface this process is working out.

The parents are deeply attached to their children, who still remain children to them even when they are grown up.

They wish to guide them and mould them and cherish them, to protect them from the world, to enjoy their society and their aid, and they expect that their children shall continue indefinitely to remain children.

The children, on their side, remain and always will remain, tenderly attached to their parents, and it would really pain them to feel that they are harbouring any unwillingness to stay in the home even after they have grown up, so long as their parents need their attention.

It is, of course, the daughters who are thus expected to remain in the home and who feel this compunction about leaving it.


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