Nothing less than this will do much good.
Now as to church matters: The short and safe way is simply to set them aside.

If those who have outgrown the church do not introduce the subject by treading on the old lady's corns, they can effectually resist all interposition of shibboleths by the followers of Pusey in all sects.

Do not make the reform movement a pretext for assaulting the church.

In short, the whole question with regard to the woman's movement is best solved by those engaged in it going quietly and effectively on with their work.

That will soonest stop the mouths of gainsayers.