And even when kindly Oxford gave him a quasi-academical position, it did not bring him, as it brings many a heretic, back to the fold.
In this period of storm and stress he stood alone.

The old friends of his youth were one by one passing away, if not from intercourse, still from full sympathy with him in his new mood.

His parents were no longer the guides and companions they had been; they did not understand the business he was about.

And so he was left to new associates, for he could not live without some one to love,--that was the nature of the man, however lonely in his work and wanderings.
The new friends of this period were, at first, Americans; as the chief new friends of his latest period (the Alexanders) were American, too.
Charles Eliot Norton, after being introduced to him in London in 1855, met him again by accident on the Lake of Geneva--the story is prettily told in "Praeterita." Ruskin adds: "Norton saw all my weaknesses, measured all my narrownesses, and, from the first, took serenely, and as it seemed of necessity, a kind of paternal authority over me, and a right of guidance....

I was entirely conscious of his rectorial power, and affectionately submissive to it, so that he might have done anything with me, but for the unhappy difference in our innate, and unchangeable, political faiths." So, after all, he stood alone.
Another friend about this time was Mrs.H.Beecher Stowe, to whom he wrote on June 18th, 1860, from Geneva: "It takes a great deal, when I am at Geneva, to make me wish myself anywhere else, and, of all places else, in London; nevertheless, I very heartily wish at this moment that I were looking out on the Norwood Hills, and were expecting you and the children to breakfast to-morrow.
"I had very serious thoughts, when I received your note, of running home; but I expected that very day an American friend, Mr.
Stillman, who, I thought, would miss me more here than you in London, so I stayed.
"What a dreadful thing it is that people should have to go to America again, after coming to Europe! It seems to me an inversion of the order of nature.