'Gilbert thinks so, I'm sure.' 'Very convenient doctrine, for us, at all events,' said I; 'but if you would really study my pleasure, mother, you must consider your own comfort and convenience a little more than you do--as for Rose, I have no doubt she'll take care of herself; and whenever she does make a sacrifice or perform a remarkable act of devotedness, she'll take good care to let me know the extent of it.

But for you I might sink into the grossest condition of self-indulgence and carelessness about the wants of others, from the mere habit of being constantly cared for myself, and having all my wants anticipated or immediately supplied, while left in total ignorance of what is done for me,--if Rose did not enlighten me now and then; and I should receive all your kindness as a matter of course, and never know how much I owe you.' 'Ah! and you never will know, Gilbert, till you're married.

Then, when you've got some trifling, self-conceited girl like Eliza Millward, careless of everything but her own immediate pleasure and advantage, or some misguided, obstinate woman, like Mrs.Graham, ignorant of her principal duties, and clever only in what concerns her least to know--then you'll find the difference.' 'It will do me good, mother; I was not sent into the world merely to exercise the good capacities and good feelings of others--was I ?--but to exert my own towards them; and when I marry, I shall expect to find more pleasure in making my wife happy and comfortable, than in being made so by her: I would rather give than receive.' 'Oh! that's all nonsense, my dear.

It's mere boy's talk that! You'll soon tire of petting and humouring your wife, be she ever so charming, and then comes the trial.' 'Well, then, we must bear one another's burdens.' 'Then you must fall each into your proper place.

You'll do your business, and she, if she's worthy of you, will do hers; but it's your business to please yourself, and hers to please you.