He should also promise to be faithful to her in future, and should dispel all her fears with respect to rival women, and, at last, after having overcome her bashfulness, he should begin to enjoy her in a way so as not to frighten her.

So much about creating confidence in the girl; and there are, moreover, some verses on the subject as follows:-- A man acting according to the inclinations of a girl should try and gain her over so that she may love him and place her confidence in him.

A man does not succeed either by implicitly following the inclination of a girl, or by wholly opposing her, and he should therefore adopt a middle course.

He who knows how to make himself beloved by women, as well as to increase their honour and create confidence in them, this man becomes an object of their love.

But he, who neglects a girl thinking she is too bashful, is despised by her as a beast ignorant of the working of the female mind.