The value of these, and, indeed, not only the value, but the very existence, of the latter depends upon its spontaneity.

A promise to love tends rather to loosen than strengthen the tie.
As to myself, the age of illusion is past.

I shall not wed, till I find one whose moral and physical constitution will make personal fidelity easy.

I shall judge without mistiness or passion, and habit will come in aid of an enlightened and deliberate choice.
I shall not be fastidious in my choice.

I do not expect, and scarcely desire, much intellectual similitude between me and my wife.