[Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young by Jacob Abbott]@TWC D-Link book
Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young

CHAPTER XXII
9/17

If she is in sorrow, he will be happy if he can do any thing to comfort her.

He will send her memorials of his gratitude, and objects of comfort and embellishment for her home, and will watch with solicitude and sincere affection over her declining years.
And all this change, if not the result of a new instinct which reaches its development only when the period of maturity arrives, is the unfolding of a sentiment of the heart belonging essentially to the nature of the subject of it as man.

It is true that this capacity may, under certain circumstances, be very feebly developed.

In some cases, indeed, it would seem that it was scarcely developed at all; but there is a provision for it in the nature of man, while there is no provision for it at all in the sentient principles of the lower animals.
_Advancing the Development of the Sentiment of Gratitude._ Now, although parents must not be impatient at the slow appearance of this feeling in their children, and must not be troubled in its not appearing before its time, they can do much by proper efforts to cultivate its growth, and give it an earlier and a more powerful influence over them than it would otherwise manifest.

The mode of doing this is the same as in all other cases of the cultivation of moral sentiments in children, and that is by the influence over them of sympathy with those they love.


<<Back  Index  Next>>

D-Link book Top

TWC mobile books