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Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young

CHAPTER XX
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"Those are the difficulties which you may meet with," she may say, "but you may buy the kite if you think best." Then when he meets with the difficulties, when he finds that he can not manage the kite, or that he loses it among the trees, she must not triumph over him, and say, "I told you how it would be.

You would not take my advice, and now you see how it is." On the contrary, she must help him, and try to alleviate his disappointment, saying, "Never mind.

It is a loss, certainly.

But you did what you thought was best at the time, and we all meet with losses sometimes, even when we have done what we thought was best.

You will make a great many other mistakes, probably, hereafter in spending money, and meet with losses; and this one will give you an opportunity of learning to bear them like a man." _The most implicit Faith to be kept with Children in Money Transactions_.
I will not say that a father, if he is a man of business, ought to be as jealous of his credit with his children as he is of his credit at the bank; but I think, if he takes a right view of the subject, he will be extremely sensitive in respect to both.


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