She stared at me a space, then said, "What have wooings long or short to do with weddings?
You talk as if you did your wooing first and then came to marriage--we get married first and woo afterwards!" "'Tis not a bad idea, and I can see it might lend an ease and certainty to the pastime which our method lacks.

But if the woman is got first and sued subsequently, who brings you together?
Who sees to the essential preliminaries of assortment ?" An, looking at my shoes as though she speculated on the remoteness of the journey I had come if it were measured by my ignorance, replied, "The urn, stranger, the urn does that--what else?
How it may be in that out-fashioned region you have come from I cannot tell, but here--'tis so commonplace I should have thought you must have known it--we put each new year the names of all womenkind into an urn and the men draw for them, each town, each village by itself, and those they draw are theirs; is it conceivable your race has other methods ?" I told her it was so--we picked and chose for ourselves, beseeching the damsels, fighting for them, and holding the sun of romance was at its setting just where the Martians held it to rise.

Whereat An burst out laughing--a clear, ringing laugh that set all the light-hearted folk in the nearest boats laughing in sympathy.

But when the grotesqueness of the idea had somewhat worn off, she turned grave and asked me if such a fancy did not lead to spite, envy, and bickerings.

"Why, it seems to me," she said, shaking her curly head, "such a plan might fire cities, desolate plains, and empty palaces--" "Such things have been." "Ah! our way is much the better.