And the business of her life, was--to watch the corpse of Love.
To death she looked with inexpressible longing.

Then, she thought, I shall always be able to follow him.

I am not praising her conduct or setting her up as a model for Miss Bullock to imitate.

Miss B.knows how to regulate her feelings better than this poor little creature.
Miss B.would never have committed herself as that imprudent Amelia had done; pledged her love irretrievably; confessed her heart away, and got back nothing--only a brittle promise which was snapt and worthless in a moment.

A long engagement is a partnership which one party is free to keep or to break, but which involves all the capital of the other.
Be cautious then, young ladies; be wary how you engage.