Compose your mind, think seriously upon the choice before you, refuse all decision at the present moment; wait until the appointed time arrives, or, at least, more nearly approaches.

Meanwhile, I understand that Lord Vargrave is to be a frequent visitor at Mrs.Merton's; there you will see him with others, his character will show itself.

Study his principles, his disposition; examine whether he is one whom you can esteem and render happy: there may be a love without enthusiasm, and yet sufficient for domestic felicity, and for the employment of the affections.

You will insensibly, too, learn from other parts of his character which he does not exhibit to us.

If the result of time and examination be that you can cheerfully obey the late lord's dying wish, unquestionably it will be the happier decision.