But married to him you're the wife of a distinguished man.

Look at him on the other hand.

Though I've provided for him, if I die what will become of him?
But I could trust him to you.

Stay, I've not finished.
He's frivolous, shilly-shally, cruel, egoistic, he has low habits.

But mind you think highly of him, in the first place because there are many worse.