She had never seen him look so incensed before.
"Now, hearken to me," he said.

"There's a time for a woman to alter her mind; and there's a time when she can no longer alter it, if she has any right eye to her parents' honor and the seemliness of things.
That time has come.

I won't say to ye, you SHALL marry him.

But I will say that if you refuse, I shall forever be ashamed and a-weary of ye as a daughter, and shall look upon you as the hope of my life no more.

What do you know about life and what it can bring forth, and how you ought to act to lead up to best ends?
Oh, you are an ungrateful maid, Grace; you've seen that fellow Giles, and he has got over ye; that's where the secret lies, I'll warrant me!" "No, father, no! It is not Giles--it is something I cannot tell you of--" "Well, make fools of us all; make us laughing-stocks; break it off; have your own way." "But who knows of the engagement as yet?
how can breaking it disgrace you ?" Melbury then by degrees admitted that he had mentioned the engagement to this acquaintance and to that, till she perceived that in his restlessness and pride he had published it everywhere.