When you believe yourself aggrieved, be silent on the subject, speak to no one about the matter, and see your friend, who is to act for you, as soon as possible.
4.

Never send a challenge in the first instance, for that precludes all negotiation.

Let your note be in the language of a gentleman, and let the subject matter of complaint be truly and fairly set forth, cautiously avoiding attributing to the adverse party any improper motive.
5.

When your second is in full possession of the facts, leave the whole matter to his judgment, and avoid any consultation with him unless he seeks it.

He has the custody of your honor, and by obeying him you cannot be compromitted.
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