But of these reasons I will leave you to be the judge.

I will never let it be said that I myself have had cause to dread the visit of any old friend.

Nevertheless, if you stay away, I shall understand why you do so.
Personally, I shall be glad to see you,--as I have always been.

It seems odd to me that I cannot write in warmer tones to my father's and mother's oldest friend.

Of course, you will understand that though I shall readily see you if you call, I cannot ask you to stay.