We might try absence for the poor girl.

I have no female relation, but I could send her to the sea-side to a lady-friend.' 'General Ople, I forbid you, as you value my esteem, ever--and I repeat, I forbid you ever--to afflict my ears with that phrase, "lady-friend!"' The General blinked in a state of insurgent humility.
These incessant whippings could not but sting the humblest of men; and 'lady-friend,' he was sure, was a very common term, used, he was sure, in the very best society.

He had never heard Her Majesty speak at levees of a lady-friend, but he was quite sure that she had one; and if so, what could be the objection to her subjects mentioning it as a term to suit their own circumstances?
He was harassed and perplexed by old Lady Camper's treatment of him, and he resolved not to call her Angela even upon supplication--not that day, at least.
She said, 'You will not need to bring property of any kind to the common estate; I neither look for it nor desire it.

The generous thing for you to do would be to give your daughter all you have, and come to me.' 'But, Lady Camper, if I denude myself or curtail my income--a man at his wife's discretion, I was saying a man at his wife's mercy...!' General Ople was really forced, by his manly dignity, to make this protest on its behalf.

He did not see how he could have escaped doing so; he was more an agent than a principal.