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Nerves and Common Sense

CHAPTER XXVII
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How often in hearing it we make the mental question, "Do you understand yourself ?" You see the greatest impediment to our understanding ourselves is our unwillingness to see what is not good in ourselves.

It is easy enough in a self-righteous attitude of what we believe to be humility to find fault with ourselves, but quite another thing when others find fault with us.

When we are giving our attention to discomforts and pains in a way to give them positive power, and some one suggests that we might change our aim, then the resistance and resentment that are roused in us are very indicative of just where we are in our character.
Another strong indication of allowing our weaknesses and faults to be positive and our effort against them negative is the destructive habit of giving excuses.

If fault is found with us and there is justice in it, it does not make the slightest difference how many things we have done that are good, or how much better we do than some one else does--the positive way is to say "thank you" in spirit and in words, and to aim directly toward freeing ourselves from the fault.

How ridiculous it would seem if when we were told that we had a smooch on our left cheek, we were to insist vehemently upon the cleanliness of our right cheek, or our forehead, or our hands, instead of being grateful that our attention should be called to the smooch and taking soap and water and at once washing it off.


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