[Nerves and Common Sense by Annie Payson Call]@TWC D-Link bookNerves and Common Sense CHAPTER XIV 4/5
So do we interfere with gaining what we need by wanting it overmuch! I do not know that there has yet been formed a telephone etiquette; but for the use of those who are not well bred by habit it would be useful to put such laws on the first page of the telephone book.
A lack of consideration for others is often too evident in telephonic communication. A woman will ask her maid to get the number of a friend's house for her and ask the friend to come to the telephone, and then keep her friend waiting while she has time to be called by the maid and to come to the telephone herself.
This method of wasting other people's time is not confined to women alone.
Men are equal offenders, and often greater ones, for the man at the other end is apt to be more immediately busy than a woman under such circumstances. To sum up: The telephone may be the means of increasing our consideration for others; our quiet, decisive way of getting good service; our patience, and, through the low voice placed close to the transmitter, it may relieve us from nervous strain; for nerves always relax with the voice. Or the telephone may be the means of making us more selfish and self-centered, more undecided and diffuse, more impatient, more strained and nervous. In fact, the telephones may help us toward health or illness.
We might even say the telephone may lead us toward heaven or toward hell.
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