People don't see why you shouldn't be married to THEM." "Isn't it enough of a reason," he mildly inquired, "that I don't want to be ?" "It's enough of a reason, yes.

But to BE enough of a reason it has to be too much of a trouble.

I mean FOR you.

It has to be too much of a fight.
You ask me what you've lost," Maggie continued to explain.

"The not having to take the trouble and to make the fight--that's what you've lost.