Let no name ever pass our lips.

We were very wrong before; we will be cautious now .-- He is your superior, no doubt, and there do seem objections and obstacles of a very serious nature; but yet, Harriet, more wonderful things have taken place, there have been matches of greater disparity.

But take care of yourself.

I would not have you too sanguine; though, however it may end, be assured your raising your thoughts to _him_, is a mark of good taste which I shall always know how to value." Harriet kissed her hand in silent and submissive gratitude.

Emma was very decided in thinking such an attachment no bad thing for her friend.
Its tendency would be to raise and refine her mind--and it must be saving her from the danger of degradation..